Promise Rings for Her

There's no rule; that's part of what makes it a promise ring. Most wear it on the left ring finger before an engagement, or on the right hand to sidestep engagement questions. Our ring placement guide covers what a ring on each finger says.

Most women wear between a size 5 and 7, with 6 the most common. If you can borrow a ring she already wears on that finger, measure it with our at-home ring size guide. If you can't, order your best guess; every order ships with a ring sizer and resizing is free, so a near miss is easy to correct.

Yes, and it's free. A date, her initials or a short phrase all fit inside the band, and the engraving stays private to her.

Tungsten resists scratches better than any other metal here and keeps its finish for years. Sterling silver is softer but is plated with white rhodium, which slows tarnish considerably. Choose tungsten if she works with her hands, silver if she prefers a lighter ring.

Dainty bands stack without crowding, especially plain silver and rose gold. Rings with a raised stone sit higher and pair best with flat bands.

Resizing is free. Send it back and we'll adjust it, or exchange it if the style allows. Order the closest size rather than sizing up as a safeguard, since a loose ring is more easily lost than a slightly snug one.